Sunday 18 August 2019

[Dress featured in this blog post was gifted by SHEIN]

Big boobs, small boobs, perky boobs and saggy boobs – no two boobs are the same (like, literally). I'm blessed with big boobs and you know what? I've not actually always been content with my bosoms.. why? Well, I think the media and society have a big role to play in my mindset prior to finding the body positive community.

Magazines, adverts, TV shows and so many other facets of the media constantly promote women with big boobs. Not only are they big but they're perky, pert, round, toned and 'perfect' according to society. We have all been conditioned to think that you either have a flat chest or big, round, toned boobs – this simply isn't true.

My boobs sag a bit. My boobs have stretch-marks on them. My boobs have prominent hair follicles. My areolas are large and not perfectly central. One of my boobs is bigger than the others. I get boob sweat in the summer. My cleavage isn't perfect and sometimes I get a cleavage gap depending on the bra I wear. And when I have no bra on my boobs spread. ALL OF THIS IS COMPLETELY NORMAL.

And you know what? If you have NONE of the above, that's also completely normal too. No boobs is normal, tiny boobs are normal, large nipples are normal. ALL BOOBS ARE UNIQUE TO YOU AND ARE COMPLETELY NORMAL.. regardless what top shelf magazines, music videos and beach babes on Instagram have/say/promote.

Boobs are just sacks of fat that are somehow deemed attractive.. ALL boobs are beautiful in their own big or little way.

#SAGGYBOOBSMATTER – @theslumflower

If you want to get your cleavage out and flaunt what you've got.. this dress is PERFECT for showing off your bosoms! I'm wearing the SHEIN Plus Zebra Pattern Shawl Collar Belted Wrap Dress in a size 2XL which is PERFECT for a size 16–18 figure! Get 15% off when using code: quirkQ15  [Dress was gifted, link and code are not affiliated]

This post was inspired by Florence Grace, an amazing body positive #CURVEFLUENCER who I adore will all of my being. She is such a beautiful person inside and out... I just love her and everything she stands for. Check out her post below which is ALL about BOOBIES!! And don't forget to give her Instagram a cheeky follow and her blog a good 'ole read.. she's a true queen!!

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SWIPE 👉🏻 I’ve spoke about this before, but after seeing this meme resurface again, I feel like we need to just cover this topic again... I mean, there are SO many things wrong with this meme. So. Many. Apart from being pretty damn racist, this woman has what I would like to introduce to a lot of you - NATURAL BREASTS. 🚨 News flash 🚨 not all boobs are big and round and perky and bouncy and the boobs of a page-3 girl - and that is OKAY. Men in particular need to stop expecting women to have porn star boobs and women need to stop being disappointed that they don’t have them!! Boobs have a life of their own - they’re affected by puberty, menopause, pregnancy, age, weight gain, weight loss, sickness, genetics and gravity. If boobs were “meant” to be big and perky for your whole life, everyone would have big, perky boobs. But like everything else, boobs are unique to YOU and are also not the be all and end all. Boobs can appear differently depending on bras and boob tape and what you’re wearing, as I’ve demonstrated in these pics. Sometimes my cleavage looks fab and my boobs are in your face. Other times I let them hang free and wild and do their thangggg. Guess what? Still banging either way. Still got a boyfriend who finds me desirable, still getting laid on the regular, still look great in bikinis, still go out braless, still feel fab. Your boobs are YOUR boobs. Don’t let anyone - or any shitty memes - make you feel like you’re less of a person because you don’t have the westernised idea of “perfect boobs”. If none of what I’ve said here works, just remember that ultimately, your boobs are lumps of fat that are for feeding babies, nothing more! 🤷🏼‍♀️ #curvefluencer #BlossomingMe #GrowWithFlo
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Whether you're part of the itty bitty titty committee or the big bosom club.. you're beautiful, your valid and your boobies are FABULOUS!!!


  1. I love the message of this post, I recently watched a video by AlexandrasGirlyTalk and she discussed her history with cosmetic surgery specifically breast implants and how she always thought hers were abnormal because only a specific type is shown in the media. This is so important to share, there really is no "normal", I love this dress too by the way. Thanks for sharing the body positivity! Great post xx

    ALittleKiran | Bloglovin

    1. Thank you so so much for this comment!! It means SO much to me. Thank you Kiran xxx

  2. Thanks a lot for the message and the dress is beautiful!
    xx from Bavaria/Germany, Rena

  3. I needed this post! I am currently pregnant and I plan on breastfeeding, which I know will change things completely. Media is constantly showing us "perfect" images, but they`re not really perfect either. We need to accept our bodies more.

    Carmen Chats

    1. YES YES YES!! Congratulations on your pregnancy, and PLEASE don't think of yourself as anything other than beautiful!! xxx

  4. Yes! This! I've always had a large set and forever "knew" that I couldn't wear bralettes or go braless or I had to have an underwire.... Nah. Not anymore

    1. YES!!!!!!!! Thank you so so much for sharing this with me.. we own our bosoms and we can do whatever we want with them! xxx

  5. PREACH PREACH PREACH GIRL! We're all human and we should accept and feel comfortable in our own bodies! xx

    Megan Elizabeth

  6. I love Shein! That dress is so pretty! I've always been insecure about my boobs because they're small but they also sag so it makes me not feel so confident in going out without a bra or with wearing certain tops. One day I went out without a bra and I felt so weird and like everyone could notice but it was all in my head. I have to learn to accept my boobs the way they are. I appreciate this post ♥


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  8. Love this post. I have always had big boobs and it put me off PE etc at school but now I don’t care. They are annoying when they fall out of certain bras but we should embrace our curves!!

  9. Love the shein dress! And also thank you for writing this! I hate mine, especially after 2 kids and fluctuating weight. I wish I was happy with them, but I am not. I want *gasp* a reduction someday and lift.

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